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The Art of Losing People

By: itsashchow October 30, 2019July 30, 2020

Uncategorizeddatingandrelationships, friendship, friendshipbreakup, heartbreak, losingfriends, relationships, theartoflosingpeople4 Comments

But the problem with putting your worth in other people’s hands is that they inevitably take it with them when they leave. All you’re left with is a damaged perception of how you see yourself and a belief that you’re worthless. In the aftermath of these broken friendships, I used to carry all the blame. Like boulders in a backpack, I would lug the shame around wherever I went and let it reduce me to a wisp.

How to Write About Pain

By: itsashchow January 30, 2019January 30, 2019

Uncategorizedguestblog, heartbreak, honestyhour, howtobevulnerable, howtowrite, howtowriteaboutpain, writingaboutpainLeave a Comment

Sometimes life can slam into you and catch you off guard. I tried surfing for the first time this week so I was literally slammed into by waves. I’m sure my surfing experience will become the basis for a whole other blog post, but for now I’ve learnt that although the waves will keep coming,…

What No One Tells You About Closure

By: itsashchow October 18, 2018November 20, 2018

Uncategorizedbreakups, closure, dating, heartbreak, howtogetclosure, howtogetoverheartbreak, howtogetoversomeone, love, mess7 Comments

The truth is that sometimes two people, even with the best of intentions, just don’t fit. People carry around all sorts of baggage that burden their decisions. You might be on a different track for your life that not everyone can accompany you on. The colour of his eyes and a crooked smile isn’t going to cover up the indisputable fact that your values Just. Don’t. Match. Some are only looking to distract themselves from the problems in their own world.